If they're ugly to you, I'll kick 'em too. I don't think this person will be, though...and I think I gave a sufficient warning to keep any angry folks at bay. Seriously, though. It was a wonderful piece, heartbreaking in a way that had my hubby terrified (I don't cry like that - EVER), and others should read it. But if you have any trouble from it, you have my humblest apologies. *hug*