I was the bane of certain relatives' senses of propriety when we addressed our wedding invitations and I insisted on "Mr. and Ms. Name and OtherName LastName" or "Mr. and Ms. Name LastName1 and OtherName LastName2" or whatever we had to do to shoehorn anything but "Mr. Husband and Mrs. Husband" on the invites.

Screw 'em. Women deserve to be continually addressed by their own names, whatever they choose to have them be.

(No Ph.D.s or MDs in the family, so no worries on that, at least.)