Sharing strength is a positive-sum game not a zero-sum game. Because helping a friend doesn't mean that somebody has less strength, in fact it makes them a) feel, "Jesus, I have X but at least I don't have to deal with Y" and b) feel like a strong, loving, together person.

Y'know what I think would be great when you're rocking the 80s thing? Chestnut lipstick, it would look amazeballs on you.