I am mostly kidding about the way I framed the OT3 question. Reading FFA has taught me that people on both sides of the OT3 divide can be extremely indignant about them with the solving a love triangle accusation thrown about quite a bit.

I would be interested in seeing that. Thanks!

#3 is definitely my platonic ideal of the way the sex scene should work. I don't think I find myself writing as many of those as I'd like.