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lunabee34 ([personal profile] lunabee34) wrote2020-10-06 02:29 pm
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I have mono

Everything else came back negative. Chest X-Ray completely clear. COVID antibodies negative. No tick borne diseases. Thyroid still plugging away (but Hashimoto's antibodies off the charts, probably because of the Epstein Barr virus). So glad.

On the other hand, there's no treatment for mono, and while most people get better in the two to four weeks range, symptoms can last for six months. I'm at 46 days of symptoms, with fever on almost every day of those 46 days.

So all I can do is what I've already been doing--rest and OTC meds.

Not going to lie. I have been so miserable that I don't think I can bear the thought of feeling this badly for weeks or months more. BUT! Nobody dies of mono. I am not dying. LOL I will eventually get better, and it's not anything serious that I'm going to end up in the hospital for. I just might feel wretched for awhile longer.

Another annoying angle: mono is contagious although not overly so; it's not airborne. It's spread through saliva and, get this, sex. So as long as people aren't eating and drinking after me or kissing me and I'm carefully washing my hands if I get saliva on them and I use condoms if I ever feel well enough to have sex again LOL, I won't spread it to anyone. But get this--nobody knows exactly how long it is contagious. It can potentially be contagious for up to SIX MONTHS AFTER I GET BETTER. And once you have it, it's in your body for life and can potentially reactivate, and you can become contagious again although apparently that's pretty rare? IDK That is 100% nuts.

For the first two weeks I was sick, I was super careful in case in I had COVID and was washing my hands constantly and not sharing towels, and then in the last three weeks when it was clear I didn't have coronavirus, I was less careful. Nobody else is sick (and I still suspect that Fiona had it and gave it to Emma and I caught it; it's apparently generally mild in children and often mild in adolescents and indistinguishable from a cold), but the incubation period is four to six weeks, so everybody else could still get sick.

So, to recap: I'm not dying. I am probably going to continue to feel wretched for quite some time. I am off to bleach everything that is near my toothbrush in the bathroom and store it differently, and I guess I'm about to find out how inflation has affected the price of prophylactics.

Thanks for all your support. You are my people. *hugs*
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[personal profile] musesfool 2020-10-06 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you're sick but I'm glad you got a diagnosis and that it's mono, and not something worse! It wears you out for a while even after you get better, I think, so take care of yourself. <3
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[personal profile] teaotter 2020-10-06 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you have a diagnosis, and it's not dangerous. That's really good news!

The rest sucks, and I'm so sorry they don't have a better treatment for you. *hugs*
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[personal profile] kass 2020-10-06 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, wow. I'm really glad it isn't something more alarming or God forbid fatal, and, I'm so sorry you're still feeling lousy with no clear sense for when you'll feel better again? I'm really glad it's not something awful though.
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[personal profile] princessofgeeks 2020-10-06 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, man, I am so glad you have a diagnosis. For me the uncertainty and waiting is the worst.
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[personal profile] gloss 2020-10-06 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad it's not something more serious, but mono does suck and you have all my sympathy. I had it in the spring of my sixth grade year and it just laid me out like nothing ever had, not even chicken pox. <3
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[personal profile] corvidology 2020-10-06 06:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry that there's no immediate cure for this but given the times we're currently living in "yeah, mono!" is oddly comforting.

I do hope you feel a lot better soon!
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[personal profile] stonepicnicking_okapi 2020-10-06 06:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow. Mono? Huh. At least it's a diagnosis, but, yeah, in terms of treatment and duration and everything, ugh. I'm sorry the end of the tunnel isn't closer or less maintenance in terms of lifestyle issues and transmission.
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[personal profile] lyr 2020-10-06 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you know what it is, and obviously that you're not dying. But I'm sorry you're going to feel crappy for a while longer
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[personal profile] trobadora 2020-10-06 07:07 pm (UTC)(link)
All the hugs!

I'm glad you know what it is, at least. And that it'll get better.
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[personal profile] kore 2020-10-06 07:26 pm (UTC)(link)
FUCKING YAY not dying! Also yay it's not any of those horrible things! But mono....ugh. All my sympathies. But thank god you finally at least know what it is and that it WILL go away, at some point.
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[personal profile] forestofglory 2020-10-06 07:28 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad they figured out what wrong and that it's not life threatening. I hope you feel better soon!
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[personal profile] misbegotten 2020-10-06 08:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay for it being something they can identify! *hugs*
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[personal profile] starandrea 2020-10-06 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Yay for not dying! Boo for continuing to feel wretched. :(

My college roommate had mono her freshman year and missed an entire semester, but fully recovered with no recurring wretchedness so far? Just as an arbitrary datapoint that has no bearing on your situation whatsoever, of course.

I hope you recover much more quickly, but just as thoroughly. I'm so glad you have some kind of answer, at least. ♥
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[personal profile] independence1776 2020-10-06 08:25 pm (UTC)(link)
*hugs* I'm glad you have a diagnosis! Mono sucks, though.
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[personal profile] author_by_night 2020-10-06 08:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Glad you're okay-ish and that it's "just" mono! As horrible as mono is. *Hugs*
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[personal profile] oracne 2020-10-06 08:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Hooray for a diagnosis! It sucks, that is true, but I am so so glad it was not worse.
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[personal profile] ursula 2020-10-06 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, ugh, what frustrating irony. But at least there's an explanation?
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[personal profile] executrix 2020-10-06 09:11 pm (UTC)(link)
COndoms are unreasonably expensive! But you can save a lot by online bulk orders!

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[personal profile] slightweasel 2020-10-06 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Mannn, it sucks that it's mono, but I'm SO GLAD you have an answer for this one thing, at least. I hope your symptoms clear up ASAP. ♥️♥️♥️♥️
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2020-10-06 10:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, wow. I did *not* know that stuff about Mono! How crazy!
I'm sorry you have it, but glad it's not something more serious.

I hope you can start feeling better soon!
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[personal profile] aphrodite_mine 2020-10-06 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Sending hugs and love to you and a swift kick in the pants to mono.
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[personal profile] resonant 2020-10-06 10:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh no! I'm so sorry - that's such a long haul. I mean not dying is good, I'm in favor of that, but such a marathon of an Illness.
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[personal profile] amejisuto 2020-10-06 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry you have mono and it's dragging on for so long, but at least it's something. You have a label and know that you'll get through it. I have faith you'll do it! I'll send you some healing vibes hon. Hopefully, you'll get rid of this soon.

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[personal profile] torachan 2020-10-07 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so glad you were able to get a diagnosis! And mono is definitely better than a lot of the alternatives could have been. Hope you're feeling better soon.

[personal profile] timespirt 2020-10-07 06:55 am (UTC)(link)
"HUGS"

You need to rest is what they tell you for that. It sucks but you have to take it easy. I'm so glad it's something that is going to go away. Also glad you're not dying as well.

"HUGS" you again because I can. Get better hon. (wishing you a speedy recovery)

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