Wednesday Reading on Thursday
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That Looks on Tempests explores what might have happened if Colonel Fitzwilliam had survived Waterloo. A Dalliance with the Duke tries a different path, in which widowed Lizzy takes up with the Duke of Wellington instead of her cousin-by-marriage Darcy; this one gets a bit spicy!
For those who are not fanfiction readers, a "soulmark" story generally posits that people are born with, or attain at adolescence, a mark somewhere on their body, usually a name or a line of dialogue, that indicates one's soulmate/true love/most significant person. The best of these stories, I feel, interrogate the concept and its societal and personal implications, which the author does in this series.
Last day for 3wks4dw
May. 15th, 2025 10:36 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
How has the challenge been for you? Did you give it a shot? Make it through all 15 days? Or just enjoy reading the posts that showed up on your flist? Curious minds want to know.
Meanwhile, I'll be working on my story for Unconventional Courtship

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Come join in for fun, memes, activities, and more ♥
Carpal Tunnel Hand/Wrist Brace
May. 15th, 2025 08:26 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
FF to this past winter when the numbness got worse (in that it spread to both hands and seven out of ten digits (three on one hand, four on the other)). I spoke to my b-i-l, who has to wear braces to bed (he said that it took him several tries to find one that worked best for him and to get a 'glove' type brace). I also spoke to my PCP yesterday. He showed me one they had in storage (but said it would probably cost an arm and a leg, plus I didn't need one that went up my forearm so far) and suggested that I ~not order it online so I can try it on before I purchase it.
If any of you have any experience with this sort of thing and can give me some advice I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
IntoABar Assignment
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The assignment is: Jessica Fletcher goes into a bar and meets... Allison Argent (Teen Wolf)!
Daily Happiness
May. 14th, 2025 11:23 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
2. The delicious chamoy Kettle Chips we were buying from the independent neighborhood market have been sold out, but today Carla looked on the Kettle Chips website and it said that Whole Foods sells them, so we walked up there this evening and they did indeed have them! With the weather getting warmer, we've been having sandwiches a lot for lunches and dinners and these chips go perfectly with every type of sandwich we've had.
3. I was surprised to see Chloe get up on my desk yesterday. She hardly ever does now that Carla's desk with its high cupboard that allowed them to get up on the bookshelves is not in here. But she just wandered over and checked things out and then left lol.

wednesday books written in the early 20th century
May. 14th, 2025 09:55 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
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Memories and Adventures, Louise Héritte-Viardot, translated by Emma-Sophia Buchheim. Louise Héritte-Viardot is my newest discover of a forgotten woman composer, thanks to the Kaleidoscope Chamber Collective having just released a recording of her Piano Quartet No. 1. I'd already heard of her mother Pauline Viardot-Garcia, also a composer as well as a charismatic opera star and friend of George Sand, who used her as the model for her protagonist Consuelo. (I've previously written here about my reading of Consuelo and its sequel, which are absolutely wild books to read, especially knowing almost nothing about them.) Sand convinced young Pauline that marrying the older writer and theatre director Louis Viardot was a good career move, and their marriage was generally happy even though Pauline was not in love with Louis.
As a result, Louise grew up in a household frequented by major literary, artistic, and musical figures, many of whom were in love with her mother, and also got to accompany her mother on visits to perform for aristocrats and royals. Louise played hide-and-seek with Prince Friedrich of Prussia, the future (briefly reigning) Kaiser Friedich III. The early part of her memoirs is full of charming childhood memories of famous people who befriended her, and also includes a section defending her family against rumors about their involvement with Turgenev, who lived with or near them for many years.
The memoirs give a good sense of Louise as a strong-willed, intellectually ambitious woman constantly pushing against the limitations of the role of women in her time -- she mentions learning the Greek alphabet as a child as part of a desire to read the classics in the original, never fulfilled. As a composer she was mostly self-taught, and the main feedback she got from the older composers she knew was to keep on doing her own thing. She expresses confidence that she was a good and successful composer, though her career was held back by bad luck and prejudice against women: "I have composed over 300 works, and I supppose they will all be published in good time, though I care very little about it". I wish she'd cared more, since as it happens only a handful of these survive!
Like her mother, Louise married young a much older man; her memoirs are unclear as to how she chose her husband, but unlike her mother, she was not happy in her marriage : she followed him to a diplomatic appointment in South Africa, but returned to Europe a few years later and lived apart from him, financially self-supporting with her own career, for the rest of her life, during which she traveled around Europe. As a result, Louise's husband barely appears in the memoirs. The later part of the book is in the genre of peroid travel memoir that inspired Marie Brennan's The Memoirs of Lady Trent, though unlike Lady Trent Louise is smugly superior to everyone she encounters who is not a Western European. Of the travel adventures my favorite was the section where a teenage Louise accompanies her mother on an operatic tour of the British Isles, acting as a backstage factotum and dealing with all sorts of theatrical mishaps in front of a humorless English audience that takes Opera Very Seriously. Also I was struck by this quote from the chapter on "Russian Illogic", which seems apt to our times.
"The Russian Government has built new universities at a great expense. No sooner are they opened than they are closed again for fear they should be frequented by young people with revolutionary ideas. That is Russian logic."
Reading Wednesday
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some good things
May. 14th, 2025 11:43 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Item the first: I totally failed to mention, yesterday, but one of the things we Observed the teenage coots doing -- okay, well, one of them was successfully managing to invert itself, Köpfchen in das Wasser, Schwanzchen in die Höh' -- but we only observed this after having already spent Quite Some Time laughing (delightedly) at its sibling, which was making great big determined accelerating shoulder-shrug motions, and separately managing to put its head and only its head underwater, but had not yet quite managed to work out how to combine the two movements so as to rotate itself around its axis. I realised while trying to describe this earlier that the reason for my feeling of Great Affinity is just how much it looks to have in common with learning to do a wheelie.
Item the second: cake of the day.
Item the third: the tomatoes I planted out and then abandoned for a couple of days seem to be none the worse for wear for it (and I established this on the trip where I took the water condensed in the dehumidifier from the latest round of laundry up to the plot, in an empty milk flagon, for the purpose of watering the blueberry, on the basis that the water butt is running low and there's still no rain forecast...).
Item the fourth: I am continuing to greatly enjoy Owl Facts. Favourite so far, which I am utterly failing to track down a specific reference for: apparently owl chicks start vocalising before they emerge from the egg, at the point at which they breach the air cell in their Containment! which you need a very sensitive microphone to pick up. The second favourite is a long shaggy dog story that I might manage to type up tomorrow, but I'm not holding my breath.
Item the fifth: I am now at two nights running for "watch thinks my sleep quality is significantly better if I spend ten minutes listening to wave recordings after lying down and lights out". If it continues to hold I will be both very pleased (about having a way to improve energy levels) and mildly irritated (about not being able to replicate this effect some other more convenient way). We Shall See.
I'm such a nerd.
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Joy Ladin and Stephanie Burt are very different. Despite both being middle-aged Jewish trans women who came out later in life (at age 46, in fact -- Joy in 2007, just after getting tenure; Stephanie in 2017, having gotten tenure back in 2010) and are poets and scholars of poetry, and are each married to a woman.
I had gotten from the library a copy of Stephanie's edited volume Super Gay Poems: LGBTQIA+ Perks after Stonewall after Abby told me about finding it in a bookstore.
It's non-renewably due back in a couple days and I hadn't really opened it, but at lunch today I read the last poem in the volume ("So Your GF Wants to Come Out as Bi and Polyamorous to Her Very Conservative Family'") and then I started reading the commentary after it, and Stephanie casually notes that the poet (The Cyborg Jillian Weise) uses she/her and cy/cy pronouns, and this was so different from the Joy Ladin essays that Ari and I had read recently. I think my brain, knowing it was reading commentary on queer poems, had at some level been sort of expecting Joy Ladin.
3 Weeks - 15
May. 14th, 2025 11:28 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)

so rewatching Dungeons and Dragons: Honor Among Thieves, what a touching moment when Holga dies heroically having saved their world from the scourge of the creepy tattooification of the Thay -- me, I'm only for consensual tattooing -- but when Edgin is having his big moment! of realizing he could, I dunno, gee, bring his best goddamn friend in the whole wide world back to life, why is the only motivation he sees in his mind's eye touching scenes of Holga being motherly toward Kira?
Is that the only reason Holga deserves to live? Because she's so mommy to his kid? I mean, I get it, his journey is realizing he needs to be less selfish -- not choosing to bring his wife back, but rather the true mother of his daughter, blah blah blah, but wow, Holga is so much more than that, and has BEEN so much more than that throughout the film, so yeah. I hugely resented it on her behalf, because his thoughts are once again selfish -- I bring you back to life bec you are surrogate mother to my child! not because you are a human being with her own destiny and I want to see you live it.
wow, I didn't realize how pissed I was.
Holga is so awesome tho.
CaCo3 & Talky Dreams
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Calcium Carbonate
Is everywhere in my life! It’s always underneath since Wisconsin was a seabed for billions of years. It’s usually under my wheels when I’m traveling because I like to stay on the sidewalks. It makes my toothpaste gritty to help clean my teeth. It’s a pretty yellow stone in my jewelry (aka aragonite or calcite). For better tea I filter it out of my hard water, then I take three capsules a day (with magnesium) to help my bones stay strong.
My Subconscious Was On It
I slept poorly last night—waking up every 90 minutes, and diving back in to the same dream: it was Saturday, I had to make up my seven pillboxes, and there wasn’t a drug in the house. Of course I forgot to take my bedtime meds.
Stranger Things recs
May. 14th, 2025 10:09 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Steddie, Max/El, Nancy/Robin, Jonathan/Argyle
Steve starts playing DnD with the kids in '85.
so this is what the volume knob's for by greatunironic
Dustin and Erica gen
This is part of a series, but you don't need to read the other installments to read this one; all you need to know is that Steve has been presumed dead since Starcourt.
So Scarlet it Was Maroon by reskaye and t1red_gay
Steddie
I haven't been reading many of the Eddie is a vampire or Eddie comes back wrong fics, but this one caught my eye. Nice and angsty and partially epistolary with Steve writing letters to an Eddie he thinks he'll never see again.
Restless Heart Syndrome by IvoryWitch
Steddie
As Eddie recovers in the hospital, the sight of Steve keeps setting off his heart monitor. LOL
Movie Night by jk_rockin
Series
Steddie
Super hot smut.
Landslide by fullofbeansandspunk
Steddie
Eddie helps Steve explore music.