lunabee34

It's possible to read a heck of a lot of femslash and het without ever coming across anal sex.

Really? What fandoms are we talking about? Because I know I've read at least a few Elizabeth/Teyla anal stories, and the f/f in that fandom is so pure and virginal it's a little scary. That said, I'm not sure I've ever read an SG-1 f/f anal story, so perhaps you're right. And Xena was really weird about the kink, too (as in, there wasn't much of it at all).

In conclusion: those poor unfortunate souls.