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Date: 2009-10-01 11:42 pm (UTC)And there's a generous helping of denial. I know how that is; I have a sort-of friend who served a prison sentence for murder when he was in his twenties (he's in his forties now), and when I first found out six years ago it was very difficult to reconcile the person I know with the person he was. My gut reaction at the time was to say "Well, I don't really know if he's guilty or not, but that was then and this is now." I didn't want to find out the details of the case; I just wanted to live in a bubble where I could deal with *only* what I already knew, the person I'd gotten to know. I got past that "bury your head in the sand" response, but it was hard work. And it's still very difficult to hold the two sides of him in my head - the brilliant Latin student and the murderer.
Of course, again, that is a different situation because my friend served his time.