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1. I am weirdly optimistic (I know, I know, I know; we watched twenty something primary school kids mowed down by guns and nothing changed; I know) that maybe some gun control laws will go forward in the wake of this latest school shooting. The students and teachers are being vocal in a way that I haven't seen before, particularly on social media. Student after student is saying stuff like, "Screw your thoughts and prayers; you need to protect us." Fox News is the only TV at the gym, and I watched a teacher give an interview in which she went on and on about gun control and President Trump being an idiot and the anchor couldn't even interrupt her or get a word in edgewise because she'd just watched her students die and it'd been less than 24 hours. I saw that happen multiple times. Maybe this time it will be different.

more on gun control )

2. books I've read )

3. Does anyone have any strategies (or recs for books, sites) for working through displaced anger, stress management, etc.?

4. Emma, Fiona and I got our hair cut yesterday. Emma had only gone six weeks since her last haircut, but it had grown a tremendous amount; we're going to have to go 4 weeks between cuts. We got her a dress she really likes (black with pockets) that isn't too feminine and fits her well. We also found a killer pair of dark wash jeans. I'm planning to take her shopping in a few weeks to look for a button down shirt and a blazer.

5. I decided instead of buying more books, I'm going to go through my bookshelves and read the books I've never read before (not too many of these, but Josh has bought some books over the years that I never picked up) and the ones I read years ago and don't remember well. If I haven't read it in the past three or four years, I'm probably going to read it. Currently reading The Letters of Abelard and Heloise (courtesy of an undergrad Brit Lit 1 class).

6. I am actually kinda sad that TV is about to come back. Gotham will be airing again soon and Walking Dead and the new season of Westworld. Right now, the only TV I'm watching is Lucifer and a rewatch of season 1 Westworld, and it's so freeing not to have every night scheduled with TV. Emma is also watching RuPaul's Drag Race All-Stars which I watch a bit of with her, but I can't take much of that show. I find it super cringeworthy a lot of the time (like Chi Chi misspelling Maya Angelou's name this last week and clearly having no idea what she'd written). Ben De La is my favorite, though. If the show was just her + Shangela, I could watch it no prob. LOL

Treme

Sep. 4th, 2015 11:24 am
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Josh and I started re-watching Treme this summer with our friends who had never seen the show. This couple used to live in Louisiana and one of them is a musician who’s played to worldwide audiences, including in New Orleans, and who frequently knows the musicians featured on the series. Watching with his commentary is really fun.

The cast is stellar. If Steve Zahn didn’t win a gazillion awards for this show, he definitely should have. And while Treme deals with some serious and seriously disturbing issues, it is simultaneously funny and endearing. My one criticism of The Wire is that the despair is unremitting and unrelenting; Treme has humor and hope to break up the bleakness of the story.

This re-watch has taken on a deeper resonance for me, though, as we just marked the tenth anniversary of Katrina. Before Katrina, if anybody in Mississippi talked about “the storm” or “the hurricane,” they meant Camille. That was the last storm that truly devastated the region. My Yankee aunt (who has always believed she’s higher class than we are despite all evidence to the contrary) used to love to tell a story making fun of my MeeMaw. The story goes that MeeMaw kept talking about the hurricane (pronounced hurrikin, accent on the first syllable), and my aunt kept wondering what kind of bird could be that destructive.

Now when anybody from the South talks about “the storm,” they mean Hurricane Katrina. I am so grateful that we were already at Ole Miss when the storm hit. I am so glad I did not experience Katrina firsthand.

One of the things that bothers me about media coverage of Katrina is the way that the storm in the American consciousness consists entirely of the flooding of New Orleans. And that tragedy should be foregrounded. It was horrific and continues to have far-reaching and troubling consequences. (As an aside, Josh’s stupid cousin stayed in New Orleans and walked out over the bridge after the storm was over but before people were being prevented from leaving that way.)

But Mississippi doesn’t warrant even a mention in media coverage. Mom reminded me of the way the Weather Channel and the news kept referring to MS as “the landmass” in their reporting rather than a place actual people live that was being destroyed.

None of my family in Gulfport left except my MeeMaw who was essentially living with my parents at that point anyway. Nobody left for hurricanes; if you left, you risked not being able to get back to your property, and nobody expected Katrina to be that bad. We spent two days after the storm wondering if that family was dead before we could get through on a cellphone (they weren’t; everybody was fine). We didn’t even think to worry about my parents; they’re in Hattiesburg, a good hour and half inland from the coast, and yet they were without water for a little more than a week and without power for almost a month after the storm. There were a few isolated incidents of violence (at gas stations where gas was being rationed, etc.), and they spent most of that time very afraid of looting and violence even though, fortunately, that fear went mostly unrealized in Hattiesburg.

Waveland’s just gone, there’s still blue FEMA tarp here and there on the Coast even ten years later, and New Orleans has yet to recover completely. Another storm like Katrina on top of the on-going devastation from the BP oil spill might just destroy the region. That thought scares me.

So for now, I’ll just watch D.J. Davis lampoon Ray Nagin and Toni do her best to track down missing prisoners and Janette struggle to keep her restaurant afloat without thinking too much about storm season.
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In a very emotional and trying week, these are the bits of shiny that've helped me through:

1. I finally know that all my family is okay, with relatively little property damage. Some of their houses were damaged, but nothing unfixable. Josh's cousin, who was in NO when the hurricane hit, is alive and walking out of NO on the interstate. Those pictures of people walking out of the city, pushing shopping carts and carrying duffel bags? He's one of them.

2. I've talked to people I haven't talked to in years or months, old highschool buds calling up to see if I'm alright or to ask about friends and family still left in Hattiesburg. It's nice to talk to them even if it is through such a tragedy that we reconnected.

3. Lisa came over and brought the first two Serenity comics!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4. My sister just IMed this quote to me: "Couple of display marks before I start. One, I realize that this is not Citizen Kane - uh, Citizen Kane is in black and white and it's about bald guys, and I realize they're not one in the same. However, during the creative process it tends to feel like one is making Citizen Kane because of the difficulty involved and you just have to get yourself in the mindset that everything you are doing is incredibly important and genius, so if I discuss this as though it is the greatest work of fiction in the history of America, it is because I sort of had to feel that way and because every decision you make as an artist is important to you at the time and has meaning even if it doesn't add up to a famous black and white movie about a bald guy" -Joss Whedon, on Buffy

5. All of you who have emailed me or commented to me in lj, your thoughts and prayers have meant so much. *hugs*
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Our phone service is back! Whooo! So I won't be as scarce as I was afraid.

I heard from a third party that my parents are okay, although Hattiesburg has been seriously damaged.

Still waiting to hear about the folks from the Coast. I don't have a good feeling about it. Gulfport was demolished. It might be days before we hear anything.

Thanks for all the good wishes, flist. They've really helped me on a very freaking out day. *hugs you all*
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Hey! *waves at everybody*

We're all okay; we got power back this morning and our water came back on about an hour ago, although we're gonna have to boil it. Our phone is down, and the automated service is predicting Sept 30 before they can get it back on. I don't think it'll be that long, but *shrugs*

We talked to everybody in Jackson and they're all okay with no structural damage. The town is screwed though. Basically everyone is without power and it probably won't be restored for weeks. There was so much damage done there. I haven't seen any fatality estimations yet.

My parents are in Hattiesburg which was hit even harder than Jackson. I haven't been able to get through to them since yesterday. From what I've been able to gather from the news, pretty much the whole town is out of power as well and the damage done was tremendous. I really hope they're okay.

What I'm really worried about is my grandmother and two sets of aunts and uncles who stayed in Gulfport. I can't believe they did that. The words f*cking idiots come to mind. Gulfport is destroyed; the storm surge was bigger than the one with Camille. For those not in the know, Camille is synonymous with Apocaylpse down this way. I have no way of getting in touch with them or knowing if they are okay. It could be days before I do. And even if they are okay, they might have lost everything.

I'm probably not gonna be around much in teh next little while. *hugs y'all*
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I'm stopping in at the library before I have to teach. I heard about the bombings on the way to work. I hope everyone is okay!!!

[livejournal.com profile] sukibluefiction, [livejournal.com profile] kitty_poker1, anybody else on my flist that I've been too lame to find out where you live....Are you guys okay? I'm really really worried about you!!!!!!!!

*bites fingernails and resists urge to blow off class by reading flist to see if you guys have commented to anybody today*


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I also think [livejournal.com profile] sweet_exile might be vacationing in London, but I'm not sure. This is such a horrible thing. I feel so badly for everyone affected by it.

ETAAm IMing with Suki as I post and Ame says Kitty is AOK too. Thank god.

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